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January 4th, 2011 (08:44 pm)

This is something that will happen occasionally in my life and sometimes I'll brush it off and other times it just bothers me greatly. As soon as I get free time, it gets filled up because my friends haven't seen me in a while or I have things I need to handle in life. Some friends get upset cause I can't go hang out with them or I can't go do this because I've already made other plans. Times like these I wish I wasn't as likable so I wouldn't have friends. Or I had more free time so that I could give everyone the time they want. Maybe I'm just pmsing but this time when it happened I felt like crying a little because it felt like no one understands. Yes I'll make these plans and I do enjoy hanging out. I'm sorry that we weren't able to make plans but these things are hard. I have a life. You have a life. They have a life.

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Posted by: twilalunesta (twilalunesta)
Posted at: January 5th, 2011 10:58 pm (UTC)

I know it sucks to not be able to hang out with all of your friends, but nobody can truly be a people pleaser. You can only please yourself in the end, and alot of times that doesn't involve people. True friends will still try to keep in contact with eachother over the years, even if it is not as much. School/College, work, family, activities and other things can make you really bus to not be able to hang out with friends as much. When I was a teenager, yea I had time to hang out with the homies, but now we are all busy with work and college, so we only see eachother once in awhile or talk...but it's nice when someone takes the time out of their busy schedule just to say hi. It's greatly appreciated. I used to get mad, when I wouldn't here or hang out with a friend a lot, but people are busy now, so it's whatever. I have actually been socially pooped from seeing so many people over the holidays that I have been avoiding people lately lol.

Posted by: Aurora (aurora_ookami)
Posted at: January 6th, 2011 02:12 am (UTC)
kuja; bliss

Oh wow I wasn't expecting a reply from you. Thank you for taking the time to read and respond to it. This means a lot.

Posted by: twilalunesta (twilalunesta)
Posted at: January 6th, 2011 03:10 pm (UTC)

No problem! I could really relate to your entry at sometimes in my life, so I thought I'd just let you know not to let that peer pressure eat you up! Keep you're head up chica!

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